Calif. School Shooter Said Traumatized by Bullying
3/16/01
A former girlfriend of Charles Andrew Williams, the Santana
High School
student who opened fire at his Santee, Calif., school, said
the 15-year-old
was traumatized by bullying, Reuters reported March 8.
According to Kathleen Seek, before Williams moved to
California from his home
in rural Maryland, he was popular and had a lot of friends.
Seek described
Williams as gentle and thoughtful.
"He was an excellent young man. He stuck out for anyone
who was hurting. If
you were down he would ask what was wrong. He would put
himself in a position
to look stupid just so that someone could smile, so that
someone could be
happy," said Seek.
She added, "Everyone loved him. You didn't have a
reason not to. You couldn't
help but love him."
Her description of Williams was much different than the
image of a boy who
opened fire in his California high school, killing two
students and wounding
13 others. Reports indicate that students at Santana teased
Williams about
his slender physique, often calling him a "freak,"
"dork," and a "nerd."
"He was different. They didn't take the time to get to
know him," said Seek.
"They just accused him of being some kind of person he
wasn't. He's a good
guy."
Seek's mother, Mary Nederlander, added, "Andy was a joy
to everyone. He was
on the football team. He had an unbelievable amount of
friends. He just has a
gentle, kind heart. The person I saw on TV in the police car
was empty. That
wasn't the boy who came and ate dinner at our house and
called me mom."
While she could not excuse Williams for shooting his
classmates, Nederlander
said his actions may have been a result of the pain he was
in over the
constant teasing.
"He e-mailed us and told us that he just wanted to come
home and that it was
just awful over there. They were teasing him, calling him
'country boy.' He
didn't dress right; he didn't look right. He was skinny,
they called him
gay," she said.
"He was under a lot of mental torture and just wanted
to come home. When he
visited for summer, he stood in my house and he cried and
said he did not
want to go back to California because of all the teasing and
the ridicule he
was feeling," Nederlander added.